How to know someone's worth without being left by her/him

Everyone deserve to be treated 'right' whether it's a guy or a girl..

Why?

Because everyone deserves to be happy.

Don't be selfish.

When you are in a relationship and you are a first timer in Love,just ask me and I'll do the counselling for you,Ha-ha-ha.

In a relationship has their 'ups' and 'downs' mostly of them is 'Downs'

Why?

Because you need to be tested both to know if you are willing to fight for each other and when you surpassed all the trials you will be happy with each other's arms.

Some trials will make you feel like 'Giving up' just because you feel a exaggerated pain or your heart will be tired and just demand a break up to your partner because you can't deal with the pain.

It's a part of love. 

"If you don't want to feel pain,then don't love."

If you really love someone you won't give up on him/her no matter how hard the situation is.Just think about this 'The view at the top is beautiful' means if you surpassed all the problems and trials in the end you will be happy as i write earlier in this blog.

But,sometimes it's not the problems that make someone give up on a relationship.They just don't make their partner's happy and they can't make some efforts because they don't know what is the purpose of doing it.

How to know someone's worth :

1.Ask some question to yourself like:

 Think why you are in that situation? why you are in a relationship with her/him? Is it because you love her/him? or are you just happy with the fact that you are in a relationship?Can she/he make you happy that nobody can do? Do you miss her/him every time? Does she/he do some efforts to make you happy?What will you do if she/he leave you? What will you feel if she/he gonna leave you? Can you make a day without texting,chatting,talking and seeing them? Can you see them without a pain in your chest with somebody else who makes them happier than you does?

Think about the consequences if you decide to break up or giving up on him/her. 

2. Talk to her/him and ask what are the things you need to do to make things work out.

3. Remember all the things you said and do together. Can you remember it and feel sad because it's all gonna be a memory?

4. Know if you really love her/him.

Being in a relationship does not mean to be happy all the time it means giving yourself fully to that person but be cautious,Know her/him first before giving all to her/him because sometimes some people don't know how to appreciate efforts.

Remember: 

"Love yourself so that you can love others too."

Going into a stronger relationships

Good day readers :) 

I'm happy because you are gonna read my new blog.
I made this blog just to express and not to impress other people.
Are you ready to talk about Love?
Ha-ha-ha.

I'm ready.

"Going into a relationship isn't easy,there are many trials and error just to make your relationship be better and stronger."

Starting into a relationship is really hard  because you need to know and feel your partner,you need to know what is his/her favorites,habits and etc.,but one thing is for sure you need to know how he/she really feels.

For me,at first it is hard to find out or how to reach him.I always notice him on chat,not personally because i'm shy.But i overcome it. I just had a bonding or time to get to know him better and more,than others. I used to know how he feels when i'm beside him and when not.

At first,we argue about how we connect and treat each other because i'm really shy.I did'nt tell him how i feel but he made the first move so we can overcome it.

As the day passed our love for each other grows and grows but sometimes Argue and misunderstandings are there.So we can't make a week without arguments :( but i'm happy because it was boring if you don't have argue with your partner because  it was so bad like my friends,he and his GF don't fight so much but they easily got broke.So i'm lucky :)

You just need to Pray and let God to do the rest for you but remember you have to do efforts :) just to surpass those challenge.
Just be contented on the things he/she gave you and be grateful with thankfulness :) 

That's all,Goodnight!

May mga pagkakataon sa buhay natin na kailangan natin gumawa ng desisyon.Desisyon kung saan kahit pilitin mong walang may masaktan ay may masasaktan at masasaktan pa rin,kasama na rin diyan ay ang sarili mo.

Hindi mo maiiwasang masaktan lalo na kung attached ka sa taong iyon. Ang tanging magagawa mo lang ay ang sabihin ang tama at hayaan na si God ang bahala sa lahat.

Kung sana'y hindi na nabuo pa ang salitang 'sakit' para hindi ka na nahihirapan.

"Sana dumating ang araw na magawa ko 'yung tama at hindi ako masaktan sa pagtalikod ko 'dun sa mali ." -K


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