Everyone deserve to be treated 'right' whether it's a guy or a girl..
Why?
Because everyone deserves to be happy.
Don't be selfish.
When you are in a relationship and you are a first timer in Love,just ask me and I'll do the counselling for you,Ha-ha-ha.
In a relationship has their 'ups' and 'downs' mostly of them is 'Downs'
Why?
Because you need to be tested both to know if you are willing to fight for each other and when you surpassed all the trials you will be happy with each other's arms.
Some trials will make you feel like 'Giving up' just because you feel a exaggerated pain or your heart will be tired and just demand a break up to your partner because you can't deal with the pain.
It's a part of love.
"If you don't want to feel pain,then don't love."
If you really love someone you won't give up on him/her no matter how hard the situation is.Just think about this 'The view at the top is beautiful' means if you surpassed all the problems and trials in the end you will be happy as i write earlier in this blog.
But,sometimes it's not the problems that make someone give up on a relationship.They just don't make their partner's happy and they can't make some efforts because they don't know what is the purpose of doing it.
How to know someone's worth :
1.Ask some question to yourself like:
Think why you are in that situation? why you are in a relationship with her/him? Is it because you love her/him? or are you just happy with the fact that you are in a relationship?Can she/he make you happy that nobody can do? Do you miss her/him every time? Does she/he do some efforts to make you happy?What will you do if she/he leave you? What will you feel if she/he gonna leave you? Can you make a day without texting,chatting,talking and seeing them? Can you see them without a pain in your chest with somebody else who makes them happier than you does?
Think about the consequences if you decide to break up or giving up on him/her.
2. Talk to her/him and ask what are the things you need to do to make things work out.
3. Remember all the things you said and do together. Can you remember it and feel sad because it's all gonna be a memory?
4. Know if you really love her/him.
Being in a relationship does not mean to be happy all the time it means giving yourself fully to that person but be cautious,Know her/him first before giving all to her/him because sometimes some people don't know how to appreciate efforts.
Remember:
"Love yourself so that you can love others too."
